Diary of a Lover

Hey, I was thinking today about all the different styles of clothing we have... We get fancy dresses and suits, we have business style of suits, we have sports outfits, everyday clothing, all season wear, and even different season wear. No matter what we can always pick out some new and different piece of clothing. Now I bet your wondering why this matters in your relationship or your marriage? Well I am about to explain the importance of modesty and still being cute. My first order of business: Males Yes, I have a slight problem with how you all dress... There are different occasions for things. I have made a list of everything that should have a special outfit and the occasions where it is OK to dress down: Holidays : Depends on your family, if your a relaxed family it might be alright to throw on those jeans and a t-shirt. However, if you are trying to impress your girl, you want to dress it up a bit. Especially if this is her first time meeting your family and comes a bit o

Hello, I haven't written in a little bit and the last one's have been advice for you, but I was trying to come up with some more and ended up thinking of this. The title of this is about a person being a tattoo on your heart. Yes I got the idea from Jordan Sparks song and yes that is a good song because it is rather true. Whenever you hand your heart out to someone they leave a mark that is so deep its like a tattoo  that you can never get rid of. They hold the memories, the times you shared together, all the pain and hurt you might have had, the longings, the memories both good and bad. The tattoo they leave is the reminder of the emotional train wreck that brought you to where you are today. Its the reminder of where you have been and why your not going back to that moment again. Tattoos come in all shapes and sizes. It is also true of relationships some are stronger and go deeper than other relationships. The problem between the two, you can have a tattoo removed, but th

Hello Again, Guys you know that moment when you feel that you are ready to tie the knot with your girlfriend? You start getting the butterflies, your heart jumps every time you are around her, you can't help but smile when she enters a room, you always are by her side no matter where your at. Well these are feelings that might help push you to propose. However, here is a list of Do's and Don'ts when proposing: Go somewhere romantic and  make it special. Make it a day that you will never forget and make sure she wont forget it either. If it's the right time and the right setting then you will win her heart over and over again.  Don't embarrass her or make her feel unimportant. A football game, a concert, a movie theater are not good ideas for places to propose. These can be great openers before taking her out or after you propose, but not the best idea for the romantic moment.  Make sure that you have someone taking photos, whether it is her parents, your par

Hey again, So here is an idea for all you men out there on what a perfect date looks like. For those of you reading this here is a short list of "Do's and Don'ts": Don't over plan: a few simple ideas is perfect, girls don't want the whole night planned out, sometimes spontaneity is good. Expect to pay for the date: Trust me this is a major plus to the female... However, be open and talk to her about this. Coffee is not a date: Going to the coffee house can be a great tool to get to know someone, but it is not a date. Don't consider it one unless you are already in a conversation and you only have half an hour to spend time with her.  Do let her choose ideas: If you can't make up your mind on two different places, let her choose as she might have a preference. If not then make it a surprise because every woman likes surprises even the ones who wont admit it.  Jewelry, chocolates, or flowers: These are nice to get once in awhile, especially the

Hello everyone! Here is a letter that I hope to one day give to my fiance on our wedding day before the ceremony where we will be exchanging our vows for each other. This is something I saw on Pinterest and I absolutely loved it! So here it goes Dear Sweetheart, On this day we will be married and I wanted to write to you a letter that tells you all about me and about what I promise to bring to this marriage before and after the I- Do's. Firstly, I just want to thank you in advance for putting up with me and my random mood swings. Thanks for always being the shoulder I could cry on, and the person who knew just what to say in order to make my day that much brighter. You were always good at producing a smile on my face even in the worst of times. So I just wanted to say thank you! Secondly, I wanted to let you know a few more promises that I might not have put into my vows  (Since I haven't written these and probably wont for a while this will most likely be in the vows or

Hey~  I have come to realize that my life will never really be anything of great importance. Sure I will someday (Lord, willing) have a husband and hopefully 3 adorable kids that will run around the backyard. Kids who love to go on family vacations and spend time with me. Kids who even when they are in college still want to curl up next me and talk about whatever is going on in their life. I want to be one of those moms, wives, and grandmothers that everyone im near just wants to curl up next to me and cuddle as we talk or watch television. Talk about the perfect dream right, perfect movie worthy dream of mine. I am hoping that it does come true someday, but until that day comes I will forever dream about it. I hope to someday be the cute old couple walking hand in hand down the beach as we reminisce about our lives together and everything we accomplished. Like the adorable couple pictured.  Or to be the old couple where yes we do bicker back and forth like "An old married